Lies and no support in love


Relationships are complicated and multi-dimensional. The pendulum swings and sometimes you find yourself doing more of the giving and at other times, your partner does. That is normal. However, if your partner almost never gives back to you, then your relationship is not mutually beneficial, as it should be. Lying is a whole other issue, and quite a serious one as far as I am concerned. Once the bonds of trust are broken, so is the foundation of your relationship. When your partner has lied to you, especially repeatedly, you are left feeling insecure and unhappy. You may feel gypped that you see her giving to others what you need her to give to you.
It may be time to closely evaluate your relationship. Does she give back to you? Are you happy and secure? Does your relationship fill your heart or leave you empty hoping and wishing for more? Do you see qualities in her that you admire and desire and does she share them with YOU? Does she support you as a person or does she chastise you? Ask these questions of yourself on a whole, beyond this moment of hurt and frustration.
Remember that two people can genuinely love and care for each other, but…that does NOT mean that they can have a happy, healthy and successful relationship together.

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3 Comments Add yours

  1. YoVaNa says:

    Well i guess one day or the other one must face the hard reality.. as u seemed 2 hav been through it,n unfortunately me too,its quite depressing when u think of it again.. n i totally agree with ur last sentence “Remember that two people can genuinely love and care for each other, but…that does NOT mean that they can have a happy, healthy and successful relationship together.” I surely am the one who understands it best..
    neways lovy thnks 4 sharing 🙂
    kip it up

  2. betty nurse says:

    nice blog! i agree with you, relationship are complicated, we never have it easily. thanks for sharing, you have advised me so well. please visit my blog, see you…

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